I'm hoping to get back in to the blogging habit, to document this joyous time in my life, and have this archived for posterity! So... let's do it.
When are you due? I’m due on April 3rd – Good Friday! – and I think that’s a wonderful time of year. I’ve always been eager for Winter to end, and this year I think the anticipation will be especially high!
How are you feeling? I’m feeling great… now! J I’m 16 weeks pregnant, which means that I’m past the point in pregnancy where most of the morning sickness symptoms show their face. Luckily for me, I’m someone who seems to have gotten the “lucky” kind – the kind that ends right around the end of the first trimester. Weeks 6-12 were especially difficult – I was sick a lot. My morning sickness was certainly there first thing in the morning, to the point where I kept a packet of saltines on my bedside table, and would eat two of them before I stepped out of bed. Interestingly, motion seemed to really heighten it (so my twice-daily train commutes were difficult at times). The strangest thing was that baby made me especially sick at night after dinner… there were numerous times (especially during weeks 6-12) that I’d eat dinner only to get sick. And then it’s like… what do you do? Do you eat another dinner cause ya just lost your whole dinner? The act of brushing my teeth and flossing were also especially hated by Baby Special J It got to the point that I would actually break the process up in to three parts – brush my teeth first, then wait a little bit. Then floss just my top teeth, then wait a bit. And finally floss my bottom teeth. It was kind of insane. As sick as I was throughout my first trimester, I felt – and feel! – so incredibly fortunate to be pregnant, that it was an easy price to pay. (And in some way, being sick brought me comfort in the four weeks between my 4, 8, 12 and 16 week doctors appointments.
Any other pregnancy symptoms? I’ve been really, really tired. I haven’t been a night-owl since college, but I could probably go to bed every night at 8pm if I let myself (and sometimes I do J). If Scott and I try to watch a show (Homeland’s back!) I undoubtedly fall asleep in five minutes flat. I’m basically Newton’s law of motion – if I stay moving I’m ok, but when I stop… game over. I’ve also had a really strong sense of smell – in very early pregnancy, my mom bought a cake to celebrate an occasion and I could smell the frosting on it a mile away. It’s very strange (but I kinda like it).
Have you felt the baby move/kick? Not yet and I’m dying for it! I’ve been told this happens to first time moms later than subsequent pregnancies (we don’t know what we’re feeling!) so I’ve been trying to pay closer attention to belly flutters… but it’s still so hard to differentiate between digestion, or nervous energy, or the baby. Soon I hope! I’ve read that it should happen soon – and I’m eagerly awaiting!
Are you showing? I’m not really, yet. My husband and mom can both detect a little baby bump, but I haven’t really “popped” yet. I’m still in non-maternity clothes for the most part – although I did buy a pair of maternity jeans, and a few tops recently J My pre-pregnancy jeans still button, although with increasing difficulty. A friend shared that she literally “popped” overnight – she could wear her jeans one day and the next she could not! Apparently most first time mothers begin to show between 14-20 weeks, so I’m probably on the cusp. Right now it just looks like I had a big lunch – not pregnant, but just a little rounder. It probably doesn’t hurt that I’m a few pounds below where I began my pregnancy – a combination of being so sick, having zero sweet tooth and eating more intentionally has led to be dropping a few pounds. Not intentionally, really, just kinda did.
Are you finding out the baby’s gender? We are NOT! :) I’ve always known that I wanted it to be a birth-day surprise, and fortunately my husband agreed to go along with it. We (obviously) have no other children, and we don’t really need to know for planning reasons. She or he is going to rock our world, and whether they do it wearing pink or blue is of little importance to us.