"I don't know what happiness is but it's definitely NOT just going with the flow. Going with the flow, for Christ sake? Don't ever go with the flow. Stop the flow, go against the flow, start the flow, but don't under any circumstance just go with the flow.
It may ruffle a few feathers, but some people's feathers need a little ruffling.
And remember: just because someone is offended doesn't mean they're in the right".