Monday, October 27, 2014

Baby Special: 17 Weeks

Weeks: 17 (and 4 days.  I'm going to start posting these recaps on Thursday to correspond with the new week)!    Weeks 4-10 crawled sooo slowwwllly.  I was bursting with excitement over the baby news, but was so careful to keep a lid on it.  The past month or two have really flown by though, and I’m so thrilled to be rapidly approaching the half way point.

Official Due Date: April 3, 2015 

Baby's Size:  Baby Special is 5 inches long (from head to bottom) and weighs five ounces now – about as much as a turnip!  

Trimester: Second  (Which I’ve heard affectionately referred to as “The Honeymoon Period”.  I can definitely relate, as the past five weeks have been some of the best in my entire life.  I feel wonderful physically – not (very) sick, not uncomfortable, just strong and healthy!  Emotionally, I feel… it’s kind of indescribable.  I feel so lucky that my body is able to do this – to be pregnant.  I am so unbelievably grateful, and acutely aware of the women out there who wish for this).

Gender Guesses: I thought it was a boy for the first 12-14 weeks of the pregnancy – I was so sick!  Sweet averse!  - but lately I’m leaning toward girl.  We COULD find out in a few weeks, but we’re still holding strong to wait until the baby is born for that magical moment.  (I’m sure it’s magical no matter when you find out!) 

Names:  We’re pretty set on our boys name, but if it’s a girl we’re really undecided.  I gravitate toward fairly traditional names, and I’m really in to family names or names with meaning.  In other words, we have nothin'.  

Cravings: I have yet to experience a real craving (I think?!)  Throughout my pregnancy I’ve definitely gravitated toward salty (as opposed to sweet) and have required carbs to start my day – English Muffins, toast, bagels… I don’t discriminate. :)  I have not experienced any “OMG I MUST HAVE THIS RIGHT NOW” though (yet?) and that’s alright with me.  In fact, I'd prefer to avoid them :)

How I'm Feeling: I don’t want to jinx it, but I’m feeling awesome!  I was very sick in the beginning – throwing up almost every day!  - but I turned a corner around week 12, and I've felt pretty great since then.  I've certainly had a few moments of not feeling super great (and a few nausea episodes) but those have been few and far between for the past month.  We had an appointment a week ago for a check-up, and Scott got to hear the heartbeat for the first time… that was very special for me.  Baby’s heartbeat is powerful in more ways than one.

Movement: None yet, although at my OB appointment on Monday night the doctor said that in a few weeks, the feeling would be undeniable, and that I’d probably think to myself “oh, yes!  I've been feeling this for weeks and didn't know what it was!”  I’m incredibly excited for feeling the baby.  It’s pretty awe-inspiring to have a baby growing inside of you – and I’m looking forward to having my outside match my inside.  (I’m really not showing yet much at all – Scott and my mom can both see a Baby Bump, but no one else can really notice it yet.  I suspect that will change soon, but for now it’s a little strange!)

My thoughts:  I cannot wait to be a mom… and find out if we have a son or daughter!   Scott is going to be the most wonderful father and I cannot wait to see him with our child. We just moved a few months ago, and our lives (and my parents lives!) have been consumed with working on our house.  Finding out that I was pregnant was the icing on the cake, and added a new burst of energy to our efforts.  From the first walk-through of our house, we knew which room would (hopefully!) be a nursery, and we've taken to calling it “the Baby Room”.  It’s currently acting as our guest room, but we've started making plans for transitioning it to our nursery.  We likely won’t start that until after the new year, but it’s been fun to dream and plan.  Scott and I have a pretty clear vision about what we’d like to do with the space, and it’s been fun to slowly do research and start selecting items.  (My parents have been hugely helpful in this as well – they found several key pieces for the room so far!)

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Scenes From A Week: October 26

It's been months since I've done one of these, and I love them!  This week was a productive one - filled with a work dinner (that Scott got to join me on!), our 16 week doctors appointment, pumpkin carving with friends and hosting my two good girlfriends and their husbands and babies for the Bears (terrible) game.  I made several different dishes this weekend - chili in the Crock Pot, pumpkin spice muffins, a baked onion dip, and an artichoke dip - the last two were for the Bears game.  I am getting quite the repertoire of dishes and I couldn't be happier about it!

This week will bring work around the house, and working on the plans for the baby shower that I'm hosting in two weeks!

dinner at a Japanese grill

fall leaves + boots
so obsessed with this lampshade
the chef in the family
belly is starting! 
friends, holding each other's sweet babies! 

Thursday, October 23, 2014

Baby Special: 16 Weeks

I'm hoping to get back in to the blogging habit, to document this joyous time in my life, and have this archived for posterity!  So... let's do it.

When are you due? I’m due on April 3rd – Good Friday! – and I think that’s a wonderful time of year.  I’ve always been eager for Winter to end, and this year I think the anticipation will be especially high!

How are you feeling?  I’m feeling great… now!  J  I’m 16 weeks pregnant, which means that I’m past the point in pregnancy where most of the morning sickness symptoms show their face.  Luckily for me, I’m someone who seems to have gotten the “lucky” kind – the kind that ends right around the end of the first trimester.  Weeks 6-12 were especially difficult – I was sick a lot.  My morning sickness was certainly there first thing in the morning, to the point where I kept a packet of saltines on my bedside table, and would eat two of them before I stepped out of bed.  Interestingly, motion seemed to really heighten it (so my twice-daily train commutes were difficult at times).  The strangest thing was that baby made me especially sick at night after dinner… there were numerous times (especially during weeks 6-12) that I’d eat dinner only to get sick.  And then it’s like… what do you do? Do you eat another dinner cause ya just lost your whole dinner?  The act of brushing my teeth and flossing were also especially hated by Baby Special J  It got to the point that I would actually break the process up in to three parts – brush my teeth first, then wait a little bit.  Then floss just my top teeth, then wait a bit. And finally floss my bottom teeth.  It was kind of insane.   As sick as I was throughout my first trimester, I felt – and feel! – so incredibly fortunate to  be pregnant, that it was an easy price to pay.  (And in some way, being sick brought me comfort in the four weeks between my 4, 8, 12 and 16 week doctors appointments.

Any other pregnancy symptoms?  I’ve been really, really tired.  I haven’t been a night-owl since college, but I could probably go to bed every night at 8pm if I let myself (and sometimes I do J).  If Scott and I try to watch a show (Homeland’s back!) I undoubtedly fall asleep in five minutes flat.  I’m basically Newton’s law of motion – if I stay moving I’m ok, but when I stop… game over.   I’ve also had a really strong sense of smell – in very early pregnancy, my mom bought a cake to celebrate an occasion and I could smell the frosting on it a mile away.  It’s very strange (but I kinda like it). 

Have you felt the baby move/kick?  Not yet and I’m dying for it!  I’ve been told this happens to first time moms later than subsequent pregnancies (we don’t know what we’re feeling!) so I’ve been trying to pay closer attention to belly flutters… but it’s still so hard to differentiate between digestion, or nervous energy, or the baby.  Soon I hope!  I’ve read that it should happen soon – and I’m eagerly awaiting!

Are you showing?  I’m not really, yet.  My husband and mom can both detect a little baby bump, but I haven’t really “popped” yet.  I’m still  in non-maternity clothes for the most part – although I did buy a pair of maternity jeans, and a few tops recently J  My pre-pregnancy jeans still button, although with increasing difficulty.   A friend shared that she literally “popped” overnight – she could wear her jeans one day and the next she could not!  Apparently most first time mothers begin to show between 14-20 weeks, so I’m probably on the cusp.  Right now it just looks like I had a big lunch – not pregnant, but just a little rounder.  It probably doesn’t hurt that I’m a few pounds below where I began my pregnancy – a combination of being so sick, having zero sweet tooth and eating more intentionally has led to be dropping a few pounds.  Not intentionally, really, just kinda did. 

Are you finding out the baby’s gender? We are NOT! :)  I’ve always known that I wanted it to be a birth-day surprise, and fortunately my husband agreed to go along with it.  We (obviously) have no other children, and we don’t really need to know for planning reasons.  She or he is going to rock our world, and whether they do it wearing pink or blue is of little importance to us.

Sunday, October 12, 2014

The year of the baby

I am overjoyed to share the news that Scott and I are having a baby.  I'm due April 3rd, which means I'm solidly in the second trimester, and I'm feeling great.   It is truly a dream coming true.

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

An end and a beginning

I sit on the train, trees whirring past my window. 

Cars look like ants, jammed together on the freeway. The train roars past the traffic, bringing me with it. 

I'm struck by this moment- caught, quite literally, between my past in this city and my future out there.  The ink barely dry on the condo sale, and our belongings packed in our new garage. 

An in-between stage, in so many ways. 

I have days left of my twenties. 27 of them.  But as I say goodbye to this, I welcome my thirties with an open heart, eagerly. 

On the edge of the future, the past still in the frame. A new life, a new home, a new decade.

The train bumps down the tracks, and I keep coming back to this: gratitude. For yesterday and tomorrow, and for being right here, on this very train, right now. 

Sunday, June 1, 2014

Scenes From A Week: June 1

Happy Sunday night!

My blogging has really taken a backseat in my life over the past few months, and in some ways I've missed it.  I've certainly missed the archival aspect - being able to look back at how we filled our days, and the different adventures that we've gone on.  I've also - really - missed the writing aspect.  Selecting a topic, writing, editing, writing some more.  I hope to get back to this soon.

The past week was a good one - kicked off by my favorite weekend of the year and then by our third (!!!) wedding anniversary.  It's an honor and privileged to be married to Scott.   The rest of the week was filled with projects around the condo (less than three more weeks until we close on our new house, seven weeks until the sale of our condo is complete).  Saturday night was the highlight of our weekend - we rented Divvy bikes, and rode them downtown to a concert at Northerly Island, a cool venue overlooking the Chicago skyline.  We had lawn seats, so we brought a blanket and bought some beers.   It was a Jack Johnson show, and at one point, there were Navy Pier fireworks immediately to the right of where he was playing - it was a true Chicago "moment" and one I won't soon forget.

dinner with scott's parents to celebrate our anniversary

first time wearing these shoes this season (they were
a really good purchase - literally less than $5 from target
on super-clearance three or four years ago)

renting bikes at dusk

gorgeous ride downtown (with a photo op stop) :)

view from our blanket at jack johnson
rooftop view at our friend's new apartment

Monday, May 26, 2014

Scenes From A Week: May 26

This was one of the best weeks I've had in a long time.  Memorial Day weekend is one of my all time favorite weekends, and this one lived up to the hype.  My parents came on Friday to help Scott and me with some last-minute condo details, and we spent more than a little bit of time talking about plans for our new home.

On Saturday morning, Scott and my dad started cranking on the condo refinements, while my mom and I headed out (to get out of their way... and get a few steps in while we were at it).  We set out for downtown (to achieve the reverse of one of the items on my Thirty by 30 list!) and did a few errands.

On Saturday afternoon, we departed for Blue Mound State Park in Wisconsin for a camping excursion (another item on my Thirty by 30 list).  More on that later, but for now - a fabulous weekend.

Saturday, May 17, 2014

1) Take an athletic class

I attended another aerial yoga class recently, and this time took a few more photos:

The class is way harder than it looks, but it's also really fun.  As an adult, how often do you get to mess around and climb things?  Very rarely in my experience.

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

outward bound

Scott and I have lived in our condo for three years, almost exactly.  We closed on it one month before our wedding day, and almost immediately went to work making it "ours" with more than a little sweat equity from my favorite contractor (my dad). We updated nearly everything - from floor to ceiling and everything in between (with a heavy nod toward the kitchen, and a major hat tip to that incredible contractor I mentioned).  We gave it a much-needed facelift.

Two weeks ago, we finally made the decision and listed it for sale.  It was a very unsentimental decision, made because we wanted to move onward and upward - something bigger.  We started our search pretty open - we looked at both houses and condos.  We looked in the city, and we looked in the suburbs.  We saw places we liked, and places we hated.  We started looking last August, sometimes more seriously than others, and sometimes just for fun.  We went to private showings and open houses.  I estimate we looked at 75-100 different condos and houses in the area (and three in Iowa, actually).  We took my parents to see a variety (about 20) knowing that my dad would be our contractor, instrumental in making the house "ours".

We saw many beautiful homes - homes we'd be proud to live in and make our own.  During the course of our nine month search, we really narrowed it down: we wanted one particular suburb, in a one mile radius from either of the two train stations.  We wanted a house (not a condo) - but importantly, we wanted a house that needed a little updating so that we could make it our own.  We wanted an outdoor space (a yard), and we wanted at least a one-car garage.  We wanted at least three bedrooms, and ideally two bathrooms (or at least one bathroom that could be easily duplicated).  On our wishlist was a second bathroom, existing washer/dryer hookups, central air, and easy/quick walking distance to the commuter train that I'd be taking (a half mile or less).  The search was getting more focused, and more real.  We made plans with our realtor - figuring out the ideal time to put our condo on the market, how to price it, etc.  We picked a date, and then pushed it back and back again.

  Last weekend, we had six Saturday appointments set up - home tours at six wonderful houses that met our criteria on paper.  Included in that list was a showing of one home that we thought was a real contender (in fact, we'd already seen it twice).  Two days before the showing... three of the six homes went off the market (including the one we'd seen twice before).  We were bummed, of course, but chalked it up as a testament to the quality of the community.  We were down to three viewings, and my parents were coming all the way in from Iowa, so Scott combed the new listings and added three brand new lists to our itinerary.   Saturday came, and the four of us drove out there and toured the homes.  All great places, but one with real potential.  We liked it immediately.

We went to a local bar (a post-tour tradition with my parents!) and talked about it.  That night we got together with my in-town brother and sister-in-law and talked about it some more.  The next morning, we called to see if we could get in to it again before my parents left down, and found out that they'd received three offers since it went on the market three days earlier.  We scurried out and viewed it again and decided - we wanted it.

Scott and I went home, and our agent went to work - looking at comparables and crunching the numbers.  We made an offer late Sunday.  To our great pleasure, the seller countered on Monday morning.  At lunchtime I got the call - it was ours!  Scott and I were just... thrilled.  I called my parents to share the news, and almost immediately started mentally making plans.  I went back to work, so excited about what was happening.  And also hoping our condo would sell.

Three hours later, I got another call from our real estate agent.  We had an offer on our condo after just eight days on the market.

There are a lot of hoops to jump through before either sale is final.  Attorney review, mortgage brokers, interest rates, radon testing, inspections... and on and on.  My head is practically spinning from all of the details being exchanged, but mostly - I'm excited and hopeful for the journey ahead... and just as surprised as anyone else about what's about to happen:

We're moving to the suburbs!

The new home has all of the musts, and many of the "would be nices".  It needs a lot of updating and modernizing, but the projects will fun (hopefully my dad agrees :)  We're very excited for our suburban adventure, and all the fun that lies ahead in our new home.

Monday, May 12, 2014

Scenes From A Week: May 12

Since the last time I posted, so very much has happened and I'm eager to get back in to a solid blogging routine.  (This week?  Soon?)  We listed our condo two weeks ago, and sold it a week ago.  We found our next home - and made an offer on it.   Pretty huge week for the Specials.

In between this was, of course, the hum of regular life:

Monday night work dinner 
aerial yoga after work 
i love spring clothes (leopard shoes are hard to see.. but there)
homemade latte at matt/kelly's house
lunchtime walk - gorgeous chicago spring flowers
mother's day pedicure with my mama
flowers from my husband